Day 21

For over a week now I have sat with the word “PADFUNT” written on a notepad. “What is PADFUNT?” you might ask… Fans of the hit television show New Girl know what I’m talking about. Positivity Always, Decency Forever, Understanding No Trouble. PADFUNT. This is my new goal. Well… let’s drop the decency forever. Decency…

Girls & Boys & Lips & Stuff

Recently, I had a conversation with someone on a dating site I am reluctantly registered with. This conversation was one I have had with others before but due to the the simple minded nature of the majority of society, it was a breath of fresh air to be able to reprise it. Most people aren’t…

Health on the Shelf

Time to start talking about previously mentioned goals. Earlier this year, I was diagnosed with type two diabetes. I wasn’t necessarily in denial but I had a bachelorette party, bachelor party, wedding WEEKEND, my birthday and a couple friend’s birthdays coming up. So, even though I was prescribed medication, I put my health on the shelf…

GOOAALLL…s

Let’s talk goals. In a previous post I said: “I want to set goals, have recurring posts, tell stories, address issues I encounter and finally commit to something.” I feel setting goals is a perfect way to stay on track for a blog and get in the habit of posting. While you still have the…

What is a guide to loneliness?

I’ve been rolling this question around in my head this week. When I say a “guide to loneliness” what am I really insinuating? What will others think I mean? This ‘guide’ is like… A diary. An account. A journal. Imagine a thick, messy notebook with stories and photos crammed into it’s binding. See the crinkled…

My Ace-ness

If you come across this and aren’t familiar with us asexuals, let me shed some light on the topic and tell you some about my personal experiences as well. The italicized is borrowed from whatisasexuality.com A Misunderstood Orientation Many people hear the word “asexual” and make assumptions about what it means. They think of single-celled…

Day 1

I am aware that blogs are an acquired taste and… this blog may be the most boring one known to mankind. If it has seemingly little purpose all I can say is… oh well… it’s me. Let me introduce myself. My name is Matt. I’m 27 and I am also asexual. Welcome to my blog……