Flustercuck

About six months ago I started a blog. This blog. My focus was intended to be on the life of an asexual man who was also gay, overweight and living a mediocre life with mediocre looks. This life and it’s struggles were going to help me write a guide to loneliness within the chronicles that…

Episode II: Return of The Fat Ace

​For the first time in my life I failed at something because I was succeeding. I set out starting this, seemingly short-lived, blog because of a future I was afraid of. I identified as Ace. Most of my close friends were couples. It seemed if I wanted to be happy I needed to focus on…

Skanksgiving

If you foresee loneliness being present this thanksgiving I have an option that might brighten your spirits. I call it #skanksgiving… Here’s the jist of my situation. Thanksgiving use to be wonderful in my family. A never ending supply of sausage balls seemed to pop out of the oven every hour from noon to midnight.…

A-date

It is almost not longer taboo to be involved in the world of online dating. This is a pretty remarkable thing because of the added benefits that come from sites/apps such as OkCupid and Tinder.  You get to make a semi-informed decision about who you spend time with. You get to take your time learning…

Fear & Self Loathing

The only real goal I’ve set so far is working toward making my diet somewhat healthier. Starting with lunches at work and moving into breakfasts I have kept it up for a couple weeks now. Even when i couldn’t have the healthiest lunch ever, I didn’t give up but did my best and kept on…

Day 21

For over a week now I have sat with the word “PADFUNT” written on a notepad. “What is PADFUNT?” you might ask… Fans of the hit television show New Girl know what I’m talking about. Positivity Always, Decency Forever, Understanding No Trouble. PADFUNT. This is my new goal. Well… let’s drop the decency forever. Decency…

Girls & Boys & Lips & Stuff

Recently, I had a conversation with someone on a dating site I am reluctantly registered with. This conversation was one I have had with others before but due to the the simple minded nature of the majority of society, it was a breath of fresh air to be able to reprise it. Most people aren’t…